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    "Rape culture is when I was six, and

    my brother punched my two front teeth out.
    Instead of reprimanding him, my mother
    said “Stefanie, what did you do to provoke him?”
    When my only defense was my
    mother whispering in my ear, “Honey, ignore him.
    Don’t rile him up. He just wants a reaction.”
    As if it was my sole purpose, the reason
    six-year-old me existed,
    was to not rile up my brother.
    It’s starts when we’re six, and ends
    when we grow up assuming the natural state of a man
    is a predator, and I must walk on eggshells, as to
    not “rile him up.” Right, mom?

    Rape culture is when through casual dinner conversation,
    my father says that women who get raped are asking for it.
    He says, “I see them on the streets of New York City,
    with their short skirts and heavy makeup. Asking for it.”
    When I used to be my father’s hero but
    will he think I was asking for it? (will he think)
    Will he think I deserved it?
    Will he hold me accountable or will he hold me,
    even though the touch of a man - especially my father’s -
    burns as if I were holding the sun in the palm of my hand.

    Rape culture is you were so ashamed, you thought it would
    be easier for your parents to find you dead,
    than to say, “Hey mom and dad,”
    It wasn’t my fault. I didn’t ask for it.
    I never asked for this attention, I never asked
    to be a target, to be weak because I was born with
    two X chromosomes, to walk in fear, to always look behind me,
    in front of me, next to me, I never asked to be the prey.
    I never wanted to spend my life being something
    someone feasts upon, a meal for the eternally starved.
    I do not want to hear about the way I taste anymore.
    I will not let you eat me alive.

    Rape culture is I shouldn’t defend my friend when
    an overaggressive frat boy has his hand on her ass,
    because standing up for her body “makes me a target.”
    Women are afraid to speak up, because
    they fear their own lives - but I’d rather take the hit
    than live in a culture of silence.
    I am told that I will always be the victim, pre-determined
    by the DNA in my weaker, softer body.
    I have birthing hips, not a fighter’s stance.
    I am genetically pre-dispositioned to lose every time.

    Rape culture is he was probably abused as a child.
    When he even has some form of a justification
    and all I have are the things that provoked him,
    and the scars from his touch are woven of the darkest
    and toughest strings, underneath the layer of my skin.
    Rape culture leaves me finding pieces of him left inside of me.
    A bone of his elbow. The cap of his knee.
    There is something so daunting in the way that I know it will take
    me years to methodically extract him from my body.
    And that twinge I will get sometimes in my arm fifteen years later?
    Proof of the past.
    Like a tattoo I didn’t ask for.
    Somehow I am permanently inked.

    Rape culture is you can’t wear that outfit anymore
    without feeling dirty, without feeling like
    you somehow earned it.
    You will feel like you are walking on knives,
    every time you wear the shoes
    you smashed his nose in with.
    Imaginary blood on the bottom of your heels,
    thinking, maybe this will heal me.
    Those shoes are your freedom,
    But the remains of a life long fight.
    You will always carry your heart,
    your passion, your absolute will to live,
    but also the shame and the guilt and the pain.
    I saved myself but I still feel like I’m walking on knives.

    Rape culture is “Stefanie, you weren’t really raped, you were
    one of the lucky ones.”
    Because my body wasn’t penetrated by a penis,
    but fingers instead, that I should feel lucky.
    I should get on my hands and knees and say, thank you.
    Thank you for being so kind.
    Rape culture is “things could have been worse.”
    “It’s been a month, Stefanie. Get out of bed.”
    “You’ll have to get over this eventually.”
    “Don’t let it ruin your life.”
    Rape culture is he told you that after he touched you,
    no one would ever want you again.
    And you believed him.

    Rape culture is telling your daughters not to get raped,
    instead of teaching your sons how to treat all women.
    That sex is not a right. You are not entitled to this.
    The worst possible thing you can call a woman is a
    slut, a whore, a bitch.
    The worst possible thing you can call a man is a
    bitch, a pussy, a girl.
    The worst thing you can call a girl is a girl.
    The worst thing you can call a guy is a girl.
    Being a woman is the ultimate rejection,
    the ultimate dismissal of strength and power, the
    absolute insult.
    When I have a daughter,
    I will tell her that she is not
    an insult.

    When I have a daughter, she will know how to fight.
    I will look at her like the sun when she comes home
    with anger in her fists.
    Because we are human beings and we do not
    always have to take what we are given.
    They all tell her not to fight fire with fire,
    but that is only because they are afraid of her flames.
    I will teach her the value of the word “no” so that
    when she hears it, she will not question it.
    My daughter,
    Don’t you dare apologize for the fierce love
    you have for yourself
    and the lengths you go to preserve it.

    My daughter,
    I am alive because of the fierce love I have
    for myself, and because my father taught me
    to protect that.
    He taught me that sometimes, I have to do
    my own bit of saving, pick myself off the
    ground and wipe the dirt off my face,
    because at the end of the day,
    there is only me.
    I am alive because my mother taught me
    to love myself.
    She taught me that I am an enigma - a
    mystery, a paradox, an unfinished masterpiece and
    I must love myself enough to see how I turn out.
    I am alive because even beaten, voiceless, and back
    against the wall, I knew there was an ounce of me
    worth fighting for.
    And for that, I thank my parents.

    Instead of teaching my daughter to cover herself up,
    I will show her how to be exposed.
    Because no is not “convince me”.
    No is not “I want it”.
    You call me,
    “Little lady, pretty girl, beautiful woman.”
    But I am not any of these things for you.
    I am exploding light,
    my daughter will be exploding light,
    and you,
    better cover your eyes. ”
    -slk

    "

    - fleuriecuts (via wishtime)

    Yo take the time to actually read this. Preach. And again if ANY of you need help or advice please don’t hesitate to email me anonymously or hit my ask

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Goddess.

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    Goddess.

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There once was a young boy with a very bad temper. The boy’s father wanted to teach him a lesson, so he gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.
On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. He was really mad!
Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his temper, so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased.
It wasn’t long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Then, the day finally came when the little boy didn’t lose his temper even once, and he became so proud of himself, he couldn’t wait to tell his father.
Pleased, his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper.
Several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
Very gently, the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.
“You have done very well, my son,” he smiled, “but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.”
The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak.
“When you say things in anger, they leave permanent scars just like these. And no matter how many times you say you’re sorry, the wounds will still be there.”

    There once was a young boy with a very bad temper. The boy’s father wanted to teach him a lesson, so he gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.

    On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. He was really mad!

    Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his temper, so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased.

    It wasn’t long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

    Then, the day finally came when the little boy didn’t lose his temper even once, and he became so proud of himself, he couldn’t wait to tell his father.

    Pleased, his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper.

    Several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

    Very gently, the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

    “You have done very well, my son,” he smiled, “but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.”

    The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak.

    “When you say things in anger, they leave permanent scars just like these. And no matter how many times you say you’re sorry, the wounds will still be there.”

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